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Listening Skills

 

You probably spend more time using your listening skills than any other kind of skill. Like other skills, listening takes practice.

What does it mean to really listen?

 

    Real listening is an active process that has three basic steps:
     
  1. Hearing. Hearing just means listening enough to catch what the speaker is saying. For example, say you were listening to a report on zebras, and the speaker mentioned that no two are alike. If you can repeat the fact, then you have heard what has been said.

     
  2. Understanding. The next part of listening happens when you take what you have heard and understand it in your own way. Let's go back to that report on zebras. When you hear that no two are alike, think about what that might mean. You might think, "Maybe this means that the pattern of stripes is different for each zebra."
     
  3. Judging. After you are sure you understand what the speaker has said, think about whether it makes sense. Do you believe what you have heard? You might think, "How could the stripes to be different for every zebra? But then again, the fingerprints are different for every person. I think this seems believable."
     

Tips for being a good listener

  1. Give your full attention on the person who is speaking. Don't look out the window or at what else is going on in the room.
     
  2. Make sure your mind is focused, too. It can be easy to let your mind wander if you think you know what the person is going to say next, but you might be wrong! If you feel your mind wandering, change the position of your body and try to concentrate on the speaker's words.
     
  3. Let the speaker finish before you begin to talk. Speakers appreciate having the chance to say everything they would like to say without being interrupted. When you interrupt, it looks like you aren't listening, even if you really are.
     
  4. Let yourself finish listening before you begin to speak! You can't really listen if you are busy thinking about what you want say next.
     
  5. Listen for main ideas. The main ideas are the most important points the speaker wants to get across. They may be mentioned at the start or end of a talk, and repeated a number of times. Pay special attention to statements that begin with phrases such as "My point is..." or "The thing to remember is..."
     
  6. Ask questions. If you are not sure you understand what the speaker has said, just ask. It is a good idea to repeat in your own words what the speaker said so that you can be sure your understanding is correct. For example, you might say, "When you said that no two zebras are alike, did you mean that the stripes are different on each one?"
     
  7. Give feedback. Sit up straight and look directly at the speaker. Now and then, nod to show that you understand. At appropriate points you may also smile, frown, laugh, or be silent. These are all ways to let the speaker know that you are really listening. Remember, you listen with your face as well as your ears!

Thinking fast

    Remember: time is on your side! Thoughts move about four times as fast as speech. With practice, while you are listening you will also be able to think about what you are hearing, really understand it, and give feedback to the speaker.
Public Speaking
is the art or practice of making a speech before an audience. In group or club events, there are many opportunities to make speeches. People who speak effectively are likely to become leaders. Training in effective public speaking is a key part of training for leadership in any field of activity.
Speakers who have a specific purpose and are successful in attaining it are said to be effective. If they try to inform, they are effective when the members of their audience understand the facts. If they try to persuade members of the audience to agree to do something or to change their opinions, the speakers are effective when members of the audience decide to take the action or when they do change their minds. If speakers try to entertain the audience, they are effective when the audience shows by applause or laughter that they are enjoying the speech.
Approach to a speech
 
Speakers must consider four points: (1) their subject, (2) their audience, (3) themselves as speakers, and (4) their occasion.
Subjects
 
The speaker's direct and indirect experiences are the two general sources of speech subjects. Direct experience is knowledge obtained by actual participation in events. Indirect experience is knowledge obtained from radio, television, reading, and listening to other people. Speakers can usually make a more effective presentation with subjects from their direct experiences. Subjects should stimulate speakers to their best efforts. At the same time, they must appeal to the audience and be keyed to the knowledge and experience of the listeners.
Subjects may be divided into three types: those which inform, those which persuade, and those which entertain. All are important.
Some examples of informative subjects are:" Basic principles of computers The feeding habits of snakes How steel is made"
Some examples of persuasive subjects are:" The 12-month school year should be adopted. The United States should abolish the Electoral College and adopt a system to provide for the direct popular election of the President. Capital punishment should be abolished."
Some examples of entertaining subjects are:" Do teachers have private lives? Inventions that never worked Pets as members of the family"
Audiences
 
Speakers must consider the knowledge and the wants of their audiences. They should find out what the members of their audience already know about the subject. The problem of explaining the operation and maintenance of a new microwave oven to a group of electrical engineers is different from explaining it to people who know little about electricity.
The speaker who attempts to persuade an audience should know their attitudes or opinions. If speakers know beforehand that their audience is opposed to their proposal, then they know that they face a different problem from that of persuading a favorable audience.
Speakers should also know whether the members of their audience want to hear about a subject. People usually listen only when they think the speaker's ideas will be of some benefit to them.
Speakers
 
The speaker's personality is probably the most important factor in influencing audiences. Speakers should consider how the audience will view them.
Occasions
 
Speakers should think carefully about the time and place of their speeches. Is the occasion appropriate for the subject they have chosen? The meeting of a sailing club would hardly be an appropriate occasion for a speech designed to sell household appliances. However, such a meeting would be appropriate for a speech designed to raise money for new sailboats.
Planning the speech
 
When speakers have given careful thought to their subject, their audience, their own personality, and the occasion, they are ready to plan the speech itself.
Purpose
 
Speakers should first select their general purpose. Do they wish to present factual information only, or to inform? Do they wish to change beliefs or actions, or persuade? Or do they wish to amuse, or to entertain? With their general purpose in mind, they should prepare a brief statement of their specific purpose. Examples of specific purposes are:" Informative. Tell a class how steel is made. Persuasive. Convince an audience that Congress should propose a constitutional amendment to abolish the Electoral College and to provide for the direct popular election of the President. Entertaining. Amuse a school assembly with a humorous look at the private lives of teachers."
The main ideas
 
The next step should be to select the main ideas, or main divisions, of the subject as stated in the specific purpose. In informative speeches, the main ideas should define the specific purpose by answering the questions who? what? where? when? why? and how? In persuasive speeches, the main ideas ought to be the principal reasons for the desired belief or action. In entertaining speeches, the main ideas should be the divisions of the subject that can be amusing to the audience.
Supporting material
 
After selecting the main ideas, speakers should choose supporting material. This includes such things as description, narration, comparisons, examples, testimony, statistics, visual aids (charts, diagrams, demonstrations, slides, maps, motion pictures, photographs, samples, or working models), and repetition (restatement of important ideas to increase the chance that they will be remembered). The selection of main ideas and supporting material completes the body (main part) of the speech.
Introduction
 
Speakers should next plan the introduction. This usually has two parts, the opening and the statement of the specific purpose. In the opening, speakers catch the attention of their audience and arouse interest in their subject. They can do this by telling a joke or story, or by providing a fact or statistic. They may refer to an event, or to the present occasion, place, or audience (with humor or congratulations). They may quote something or ask a question. In their statement of specific purpose, they tell the audience precisely what they intend to do in their speech and what value this topic has for the audience.
Conclusion
 
Next comes the preparation of a conclusion. In informative speeches, this part should be a summary of the main ideas and specific purpose. In persuasive speeches, the conclusion should combine a summary with a final appeal to the audience to accept the arguments offered. Entertaining speeches usually end on a point of great amusement, without any type of formal conclusion.
Outline
 
After all these steps, speakers should prepare an outline. To see a sample outline for the subject "Congress should propose an amendment to the U.S. Constitution to abolish the Electoral College and to provide for the direct popular election of the President." see the Public Speaking article in the print version of The World Book Encyclopedia.
 

Delivering the speech
 

Speakers may deliver their talks directly from the outline, or they may use the outline as the basis for a written speech. Skilled speakers usually prefer to speak from the outline, without writing the whole speech down.
A speech that is delivered from an outline, without being memorized, is said to be delivered extempore, or extemporaneously. Extempore speeches should not be confused with impromptu speeches. These types of speeches are made without any previous preparation, often without notice.
If speakers are properly prepared, they should feel at ease in front of an audience. They should relax and speak in a natural voice. They should stand erect, make eye contact with individuals in the audience, and speak loudly enough to be heard easily. In addition, speakers should vary the pitch and volume of their voice and their rate of speech to avoid being singsong or dull.
James M. Copeland M.A., Executive Secretary, National Forensic League.

 

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